Maeve's Magical Journey
“I want to walk!” is something our daughter Maeve says quite often. When she says it, she means she wants one of us to take her by the hands and help her walk or, even better, jump. Because she can’t stand unsupported, or walk, let alone jump, on her own. But we’re hopeful that one day that will change.
Maeve was born on 19 August, 2013, two months before her due date. Weighing just 3lbs 13 and three quarter ounces, her unexpected arrival meant she had to spend 3 weeks in the Special Care Baby Unit. Looking at this tiny little girl in a plastic box, surrounded by wires and machinery, was a very anxious time and that daunting, exciting feeling of bringing our newborn home for the first time was magnified by our being so
relieved Maeve had made it at all.
Fast forward to around nine months and it became apparent Maeve wasn’t hitting some developmental milestones, most noticeably she couldn’t sit up unsupported. Maeve had an MRI scan that revealed
brain damage leading to a diagnosis of cerebral palsy.
For any family, having a disabled child isn’t something you expect. The news is pretty devastating initially and there comes with it great worry for the future. Simple things, previously taken for granted with Maeve’s older brother, like using public transport, going to a child's party or visiting the playground, become daunting challenges. It necessitates a change in perspective and makes apparent the daily struggles many people face.
But it’s Maeve who has taught us to cope through these challenges. She has shown great courage in engaging with the many and increasingly difficult challenges she is set, always displaying her wicked sense of humour.
And her hard work has paid off. She’s made amazing progress so far – with the help of her Kaye walker she can get around, provided surfaces are relatively flat and smooth. She also uses a specialist trike and a wheelchair for longer distances. She is learning how to walk with
sticks, which will allow her to access places she can’t currently get to with her walker and she has taken some wobbly but independent steps with her physio. It’s all a big challenge and leaves her very tired.
But we don’t want Maeve to have to rely on a wheelchair – there’s a spinal operation called Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy (SDR) that could give her the best chance of walking on her own. SDR permanently removes spasticity and the associated pain and joint deformity that accompany it, but it requires a three year rehabilitation period. During that time Maeve will need to undertake an intensive physio regime as she re-learns how to move. The procedure, as well as some post-operative physio, very recently became available on the NHS, but to prepare Maeve for the operation and to provide the optimum level of support afterwards will cost a lot of money. Which is why we’re asking for help through Tree of Hope fundraising.
The decision to put Maeve forward for surgery is one we’ve wrestled with for a long time. We don’t know what the future holds for her - all we can do is take it step by step and offer her every opportunity to fulfil her potential to the maximum. And we’re very hopeful about that.
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